Hosting a dinner for friends or going over to a friend’s place for a party is hardly a formal occasion. It is comfortable company, and the atmosphere is more relaxed. Yet, some rules of etiquette apply. As a host/hostess one needs to follow certain guidelines which will help in maintaining and strengthening the bond of friendship.
1 Discuss with your friends the date and time of the party, keeping in mind their availability and convenience.
2 Extend your invitations, naming all the people you wish to invite. Even if you take their presence for granted, you must invite them personally.
3 If friends offer to help, you may delegate responsibilities.
4 During the party, introduce them to the newer guests.
5 Never act too familiar or criticise them in the company of other guests.
6 Do not speak about their personal issues or problems at the party. For instance: Have you found a job? Has your daughter/son found a suitable boy/girl etc...
7 Do thank them and see them off with courtesy.
As a guest,
1 Offer to help wherever necessary, like decorating the house, setting the table etc.
2 If there is a shortage of staff then offer to bring yours along or help in the kitchen.
3 The least you can do is, not order the host/hostess around. Also take care of your family members.
4 As a friend and guest, carry a gift for the hosts (flowers,chocolates etc).
5 Do not criticise the food or pass negative comments on any arrangement.
6 Do not gossip in the presence of other guests.
7 Try your best to keep the party spirited and make your contribution worthwhile.
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